I understand that You probably want another answer, but IMHO the best thing you can do here is to change jobs. Just be sure to learn in advance how this state of Affairs in a new place, so as not to change sewed on soap. Silver bullet does not exist — or you remain without a prize and get sidelong glances, or join the General policy. In another's monastery under the Charter to rule itself, will fail, simply because the rest of it is quite satisfied. In addition, it is worth remembering that some activities involve overtime work. For example, it is naive to try to get a job in an advertising Agency (in GMT at least), and think that you do not need processing. It has become a way of doing business, and it laid originally.